The two things God cannot do are: 1) lie; and 2) force us to be reconciled to himself or to anyone else. Supporting scriptures are discussed briefly.
Job said to God: ““I know that You can do all things.” Job 42:2a. But if this half verse is read out of context, Job was simply wrong.
There are two things God cannot do:
- He cannot lie.
- He cannot force anyone to be reconciled–to himself or to another person–against their will.
It’s not that God could do these things if he wished but chooses not to do them.
No, God cannot–is not able to–do these things. He cannot even consider or ineffectively choose to do them.
He cannot lie because he is the truth. John 14:6. So, to lie, God would have to act contrary to his nature. Numbers 23:19. He often tells us things which appear to us to be false–either because we didn’t correctly understand him or because we don’t know all of the relevant facts. And he often says things that are conditional–in which what he says he will do depends on what someone else says or does–and we can misinterpret these, as well. But he cannot lie.
God cannot force people to reconcile because this would be contrary to the nature with which he created us. The first couple, in their innocence, were given the choice to either obey or disobey God. They freely chose to disobey. Genesis 2:15-17 & 3:1-13. Since that time, everyone–except Jesus–who lives long enough sins at some point in their lives in the same way Adam did, by defying a command. And every time we are faced with one of God’s commands, it comes with the choice whether or not to obey it. Romans 7:7-13. God never makes this choice for us. Doing so would be contrary to his choice to create us with free will.
So God commands believers to forgive each other our offenses against each other. be reconciled to each other and to live in unity. Matthew 6:12, 14; Matthew 18:21-22; Mark 9:50; Romans 12:17-18; 2 Corinthians 13:11-12; Ephesians 4:31-32; Colossians 3:14-15. And he states some pretty drastic consequences will follow if we fail or refuse to seek or grant reconciliation. Matthew 6:14-15; Matthew 18:29-30, 33-35; Luke 7:47; Hebrews 12:14-15. But he will not force us to fully forgive. He will let a root of bitterness spring up and defile many, if we choose this path. He cannot stop us!